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Aspecs and Queer Platonic Relationships – Part Two

Queer Platonic Relationships, or Queer Platonic Partnerships (QPRs/QPPs) are relationships that purposely defy relationship categories, and can mix elements from platonic, romantic, and sexual relationships. They are each unique depending on the people involved in them, but they often involve some level of commitment or intimacy.

Because asexual and aromantic people tend to structure their relationships and interpersonal needs in unique ways, many of them choose to engage in relationships that are hard to define, and take comfort in Queer Platonic Relationships.

The third Sunday in July is Queer Platonic Pride Day – in 2022, that’s July 16, so we decided to highlight aspecs with Queer Platonic Relationships. Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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Aspecs and Queer Platonic Relationships – Part One

Queer Platonic Relationships, or Queer Platonic Partnerships (QPRs/QPPs) are relationships that purposely defy relationship categories, and can mix elements from platonic, romantic, and sexual relationships. They are each unique depending on the people involved in them, but they often involve some level of commitment or intimacy.

Because asexual and aromantic people tend to structure their relationships and interpersonal needs in unique ways, many of them choose to engage in relationships that are hard to define, and take comfort in Queer Platonic Relationships.

The third Sunday in July is Queer Platonic Pride Day – in 2022, that’s July 16, so we decided to highlight aspecs with Queer Platonic Relationships. Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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July ’22 TAAAP Pride Chats – Wrath Month

June is well known as Queer/LGBTQIA+ Pride Month around the world. But July is often referred to as Queer/LGBTQIA+ Wrath Month. So this month we’ll be talking about the causes of our wrath and how to express that wrath in all sorts of ways – from activism to protest to self-care, as taking care of ourselves is one way of resisting the powers that want to prevent us from living our lives the way we want or need to.

We’ll also be discussing how to do so safely and inclusively, since July is also Disability Pride Month, and the needs of those with disabilities are often overlooked when protesting.

The rest of the Discord will still be open, along with the channels specifically to discuss the Carnival of Aros and the Carnival of Aces.

This month’s chat will take place from 10:00 am Eastern Saturday, July 30 to 11:59 pm Eastern Sunday, July 31. (That’s 2 PM GMT Saturday through 3:59 AM Monday) Per usual we will try to have 2 hour voice chats both days, based on availability of participants.

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Pride 2022 – Non-Queer Aspecs

Queer is often used as an umbrella label for the LGBTQIA2+ community. But some people within the community don’t identify with the label “queer” for various reasons, and that includes ace and aro people.

This Pride Month we wanted to highlight the experiences of those who are aro or ace and do not identify as queer, as Pride is for them as well! Thanks to all of our contributors.

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Straight or Hetero Aspecs – Part Four

“Straight” is often used to mean the opposite of “queer”, and therefore many people think that straight or hetero people don’t belong in or are not part of the LGBTQIA+ community. Unfortunately, this can impact asexual and aromantic people, as it is possible for them to have heteromantic or heterosexual attraction or desire even while they are ace, aro, or aroace. For Pride Month, we wanted to shine a light on those aspec people who identify as straight or hetero in any way, as this month is for them as well.

This article is the fourth and last of several focused on straight or hetero aspecs. Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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Pride 2022 – Straight or Hetero Aspecs – Part Three

“Straight” is often used to mean the opposite of “queer”, and therefore many people think that straight or hetero people don’t belong in or are not part of the LGBTQIA+ community. Unfortunately, this can impact asexual and aromantic people, as it is possible for them to have heteromantic or heterosexual attraction or desire even while they are ace, aro, or aroace. For Pride Month, we wanted to shine a light on those aspec people who identify as straight or hetero in any way, as this month is for them as well.

This article is the third of several focused on straight or hetero aspecs. Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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Pride 2022 – Loveless Aspecs

Pride is often associated with love. Common phrases include “Love is Love” or “Love makes us human”. Pride may be about love for some people, but it is not the foundation of the celebration for all LGBTQIA+ people. Some people do not feel, understand, or connect with love – any form of it. They may identify as “Loveless”, which originated in the aromantic community as a way of reclaiming something often seen as a negative trait.

Text: Loveless Someone who does not feel love, doesn't understand or feels disconnected from love as a concept or descriptor, or rejects love or the social construct of it This identity originated in the aromantic community. Some loveless people feel hatred towards the social construct of love or are repulsed by the idea of love, while others simply feel disconnected from it personally. Picture: The Loveless Aro flag
A graphic describing “loveless”. Alt text included.

For Pride Month, we wanted to shine a light on those aspec people who identify as Loveless, as this month is for them as well.

Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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Pride 2022 – Straight or Hetero Aspecs – Part Two

“Straight” is often used to mean the opposite of “queer”, and therefore many people think that straight or hetero people don’t belong in or are not part of the LGBTQIA+ community. Unfortunately, this can impact asexual and aromantic people, as it is possible for them to have heteromantic or heterosexual attraction or desire even while they are ace, aro, or aroace. For Pride Month, we wanted to shine a light on those aspec people who identify as straight or hetero in any way, as this month is for them as well.

This article is the second of several focused on straight or hetero aspecs – this one includes all aromantic people, some of whom are also asexual, who identify as straight or hetero.

Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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Pride 2022 – Straight or Hetero Aspecs – Part One

“Straight” is often used to mean the opposite of “queer” or LGBTQIA+, and therefore many people think that straight or hetero people don’t belong in or are not part of the LGBTQIA+ community. Unfortunately, this can impact asexual and aromantic people, as it is possible for them to have heteromantic or heterosexual attraction or desire, or hetero tertiary attraction or desire, even while they are ace, aro, or aroace. For Pride Month, we wanted to shine a light on those aspec people who identify as straight or hetero in any way, as this month is for them as well.

This article is the first of several focused on straight or hetero aspecs – this one includes all asexual people, some of whom are also aromantic, who identify as straight or hetero. One of the next articles will include all aromantic people, some of whom are asexual, who identify as straight.

Thank you to all who volunteered their time and shared their experiences.

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June ’22 TAAAP Pride Chats – Pride Month

In honor of June being Pride Month, we’re doing Pride Chats every weekend in June.

Each weekend has a different theme:

  • Weekend 1 (June 4-6) – Pride
  • Weekend 2 (June 11-13) – Intersections with other identities
  • Weekend 3 (June 18-20) – Community Building
  • Weekend 4 (June 25-27)- Activism

The rest of the Discord will still be open, along with the channels specifically to discuss the Carnival of Aros and the Carnival of Aces.

This month’s chats will be open from 10:00 am Eastern Saturdays to 11:59 pm Eastern Mondays. (That’s 2 PM GMT Saturdays through 3:59 AM GMT Tuesdays).

See you then!

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